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Married Life With Acceptance & Rejections
Created at : 2018-11-07 13:11:21
Author Name: SOBIYA JUVERIYA
Majority of the people have an opinion that Life today has become faster than ever, with no feelings, fundamentals, belongingness or Responsibilities. I had the same perception about my Life and people around with which I was trying to live the way it was to me. I believe in simple living, fun loving and belonging to High-class Business family we lived together in a Joint Family.
I got married at the age of 24 with a Girl from my Family; My Marriage was an all-time big fat Wedding as I was the only Son & Only male among the Cousins. Despite my Partner being from the same Family with Similar Standard of Living our Marriage ended up within 3 –Months, but till then I started loving my Partner As it was my first marriage though arranged but couldn’t last making me deeply hurt. The same year I was forced to marry again with our Business’s Partner’s daughter and somewhere I also felt that as we are known to each other since school and shared lot of childhood memories accepted the proposal. Like my first marriage my second marriage also became just a dream for me, again got take a divorce but this time I was a father of twin daughters, And at the time of my second divorce, my Kids were hardly 2 years.
My second wife she just left me and my daughters, I started managing bringing them up, I was completely broken with both the incidents happen in my Married Life. Twice I got married but failed not as a husband, though I tried being the best Husband finally started taking it as a Fate. Slowly I started realizing how hard it is to bring up Kids, and a daughter especially needs mother’s Love.
It was about 5-years since then; I have been taking care of my Daughters and living a Mechanical Life. Doing not much with the Life finally happened to meet an unmarried Lady in a Business Conference who was a competitor turned my Life partner, her acceptance towards my Life my Kids and everything changed my Beliefs that Life never runs without Belongingness, feelings or responsibilities. Living with a Pious Muslim Wife now I feel I am able to live a satisfactory Life with her and our Kids.
It’s okay to be a failure for achieving Satisfaction in a relationship. I have learned it’s not Money, Showoff, a very well known person nothing could bring you Happiness but a stranger can also make you; life Complete.
And Yes!!
Accepting the rejections can only help you dare for a new beginning.