Love and hatred in the Husband and Wife [Love / Hate Relationship]:

Many men and women ask for their marriage-related problems, their counseling is sometimes felt that in the light of their observations and experiences, I can do something over the problems and solutions of married life etc. Which psychology also read, but he studied his client's study, based on the psychology of a school of theater. And at times, this work is an important time of that the fact is actually in psychology. Considering people's behavior, every person who understands the work of the mind behind them can be a good psychologist. I know that many people do not like these things in my way so they do nothing. If you do not, I say to them that I am not an Ezz-e-Shariah scholar, but I think on the topics of Isaiah A psychologist that people do not expect such kind of words from Shariah scholar.

Shariah Scholar does not talk about the subjects that they do not have the burden of these things or due to the burden, but such things are profits of their place and destiny. So, however, the reason that is the reason is not to deny that there are problems in society and somebody needs to talk to them. So I do the same. So our theme is, can you love and hate one person at a time? So it's possible. I have many such cases that husbands are tied to their partner at the same time with love and hatred, so I do not deny it at all. Now some people explain that the relationship between the same person at the same time is of two different types because logical is not possible because of the love of the partner, then this interpretation is not correct. However, it can be said that the love for the partner is love for him. And the more severe the love, the hatred is equally severe.

Some killers who killed their partner were asked for the cause of murder, they did not love the cause of death and hatred. So the honor created by love led them to death. So love is not a crime, but also produces more relationships or child genocide and it is not possible to stop the process. I have noticed that we have a relationship between the seven and a half years of age in the simpler life of us. And in this period there are some social and psychological causes of this relationship, but I do not want to go to them right now, but a major reason for this is to partner with one partner or to compromise another or to feel that he is depressed. Has been up or down.

If you are very happy with your partner at a time and do not want to look at it in other times, you are in love with love and hatred. And if you are in the rivalship with your partner, if you have an uproar, separation and rest-ups in your marriage life. Similarly, if you want to divorce or space separation from your partner and are not separated, you are suffering from this rally. And if you believe our conditions can never be well and you are disappointed with a good marriage, you are suffering from this rally. See, this hatred is associated with trivial behavior due to small misconceptions and then becomes a stubborn tree in a time that you try to hide in the river of your love but it is so high. It is possible that the secret is not hidden that many years have passed for its fruitful flowers.

What is the solution to it? By doing two work will improve greatly that roots of this tree of hatred will start hollow. And dare for that I think the husband should do that. When one is sitting on the food, consider the first letter to be put in the mouth of your wife, whether it is good or bad. And on the other hand, stick to each other on one bed and start to sleep that it is hollow inside the body hollow inside the body. Now, in this, wives complain that husbands find more expectations that their mind is not ready to fulfill, ie, marriage. So husbands should be specializing in days in order to establish a marriage, such as the third or fourth or seventh or ninth days. And by sticking to the middle of the days, I mean gold only, gold is not to establish a relationship. Then, it will definitely improve, Inshallah.